college advice

I’m certainly no expert on the subject, but my students ask me about college applications and decision-making each year--especially when applications and acceptances are due. I had a nice online “chat” with a student about the subject and I thought I’d share it with you. His questions are very typical and I hope my answers can offer some help with the tough decisions you face.

Since this chat years ago, I have continued to teach juniors and seniors and my general advice has not changed. These days I really emphasize finding a good fit for you academically, economically, socially, and geographically. If you struggle with any one of those areas during college, you won't be happy. For example, you may think it's the best school for you academically and socially and cost doesn't matter, but maybe it really is too far away from your family or you can't stand cold weather. I didn't even apply to any east coast schools simply because of geography. If everything else looks good, but you're going to need heavy loans and to work a job while taking classes then maybe that will be too much of a strain for you. Undergraduate university prestige is not nearly as important as that of the graduate school you attend, if you are planning on graduate school. Either way, finding a good fit for you individually (not for your parents, not for your friends) will be your best chance for happiness and academic success leading to a good future.

(The screen names have been changed and the conversation was edited for anonymity and readability.)

October

CuriousSenior: hey ms. brown
Ms. Brown: hi
Ms. Brown: what's up?
CuriousSenior: i guess the main thing i wanted to tell you is that i've kinda narrowed down my college list so i know what kind of things i'll need to apply.
Ms. Brown: that's good
Ms. Brown: which schools made the cut?
CuriousSenior: umm... there are still cuts to be made... . i think once i decide whether i'm going to a private school, a public school i'll play sports at, or a public school i wont play sports at i'll have it down to a good number
CuriousSenior: right now i'm leaning towards public schools i will play sports at
Ms. Brown: I guess you need to decide what you want to base decisions on: sports or academics
Ms. Brown: but a good combination will probably come to light
CuriousSenior: that's only kind of true cause all of the sports schools i have in mind are also TOP academic schools
Ms. Brown: choosing a school based on sports isn't necessarily putting academics aside
Ms. Brown: I think you can get a good education at just about any college or university
CuriousSenior: yeah, i think so too
Ms. Brown: it depends on how the students apply themselfs
Ms. Brown: themselves*
Ms. Brown: the kinds of classes you take and how you advocate for your own education
Ms. Brown: I think too many students at TP think they have to go to the very, very best school or it doesn't mean anything
Ms. Brown: that's not true at all
CuriousSenior: yeah.
Ms. Brown: students will be more successful at a school that's the right fit
Ms. Brown: socially, academically, geographically, and economically
Ms. Brown: if you strain any one of those areas, you won't be happy
Ms. Brown: employers and grad schools would rather see successful students at SDSU than those who barely made it through Harvard
CuriousSenior: hahaha. really the only thing keeping ivy's on my list is the prestige, and i guess that's not right. but assuming i can get into the ivy's, with sports as a big help, i feel almost foolish giving it up
Ms. Brown: There's something else that most high school students don't understand:
CuriousSenior: whats that...
Ms. Brown: let's say someone chooses UC Whatever for their great biology program
Ms. Brown: that prestige is usually based on the research and publications of the professors
Ms. Brown: those profs are usually only working w/ grad students who are benefiting from that prestige
Ms. Brown: many graduate programs do not select students from their own undergraduate programs
CuriousSenior: yeah. ic
CuriousSenior: so you're saying reputation/prestige is overrated?
CuriousSenior: for undergrad especially?
Ms. Brown: so, a UC Whatever undergrad who chose the school for its biology reputation, may have a lesser chance of getting into the prestigious bio grad program
CuriousSenior: ic
Ms. Brown: yes...reputation is overrated
CuriousSenior: well i guess that leads me to my other question i wanted to ask you
Ms. Brown: but when I say this, I feel like students aren't going to take me seriously
Ms. Brown: since I went to prestigious Mudd
Ms. Brown: which is, of course, only prestigious to people who know what it is.
Ms. Brown: most people don't, and don't care
CuriousSenior: i've been there before
CuriousSenior: i know they only offer about 10 majors
CuriousSenior: all science/math related
CuriousSenior: and they ride unicycles
Ms. Brown: 6
CuriousSenior: and its a tiny school
Ms. Brown: math, engr, bio, physics, chem, comp sci
CuriousSenior: haha
Ms. Brown: about 600 when I was there
Ms. Brown: more now, I think
Ms. Brown: so what was that other question you wanted to ask
CuriousSenior: i wanted to ask what you think i should major in if i told you what my interests were
CuriousSenior: since all my interessts revolve around the majors at mudd
Ms. Brown: I can try to advise, but that's another myth...
Ms. Brown: that you need to decide now
CuriousSenior: well i want to sort of have an idea now cause that way i can eliminate a few more schools that might specialize is something other than what i want to major in
Ms. Brown: that's good thinking
Ms. Brown: one of my h.s. friends majored in ...what was it...cybernetics
Ms. Brown: it combined biology, robotics, ethics and humanities
CuriousSenior: whoa.
Ms. Brown: now he's maintaining computers and programming databases and web sites at UCSF
CuriousSenior: ic
Ms. Brown: Another friend changed his major many times
Ms. Brown: I think he landed on something called "psycho-biology"
Ms. Brown: now he works at a pharmaceutical company organizing studies w/ experimental medication for Alzheimer's disease
Ms. Brown: but it took him a long time to decide on a major
Ms. Brown: he didn't plan to do what he's doing now
Ms. Brown: nor did my cybernetics friend
CuriousSenior: haha. i don't think i'll know what i'm going to do either, until i'm actually doing it
Ms. Brown: I think, besides me, only one of my close h.s. friends is doing what he set out to do after h.s.
Ms. Brown: He's a local veterinarian. 
Ms. Brown: Another friend double majored in economics and archeology
Ms. Brown: now he's running the finances of an office-machine sales company
CuriousSenior: ic. so you've always wanted to be a teacher?
Ms. Brown: I've thought about being a teacher forever
Ms. Brown: but I didn't know if that's because that's the only job I was exposed to
Ms. Brown: or because of the myth "teaching is the only thing you can do w/ a math major"
Ms. Brown: or because I really did want to do it
Ms. Brown: In college, I tried to make a point to learn about other careers
Ms. Brown: experience research mathematics
Ms. Brown: work on an industry-type project my senior year
Ms. Brown: and spend time in local schools
Ms. Brown: the more I did in education, the more I knew that's what I wanted to pursue
CuriousSenior: thats cool
Ms. Brown: I get asked about it a lot
CuriousSenior: my dad actually tells me there's a lot you can do with a math major. he said its a good basis for a lot of graduate school majors
Ms. Brown: It sure is
CuriousSenior: he told me same with phsyics
Ms. Brown: the more math you have the better you will do in any field
Ms. Brown: I have a friend who just finished his PhD in biology
Ms. Brown: he said that all of the math he had to have a Mudd really helped him out in grad school
Ms. Brown: Not necessarily because he was using the formulas or whatever,
Ms. Brown: but because it helped him analyze better
Ms. Brown: He said it was amazing how little math many of his peers really knew
CuriousSenior: hahaha
Ms. Brown: One math major at Mudd with me went to medical school
CuriousSenior: i'm really starting to think i want to major in math. because i'm really interseted in logic and probability and knowing that there's a lot you can do with a math major is good
Ms. Brown: :-)
Ms. Brown: Usually w/ a math major you can also take a lot of science
CuriousSenior: don't some schools have majors that are really specific, like statistics which i would think fell into math
Ms. Brown: some have mathematical physics programs
Ms. Brown: In large universities, statistics is its own department
Ms. Brown: Stat is actually my weakest area of math
Ms. Brown: So, it was just the college stuff you wanted to talk about?
CuriousSenior: pretty much
CuriousSenior: i thought you'd have some good insight
Ms. Brown: I hope I helped
CuriousSenior: definitely did
Ms. Brown: I've had this conversation in various forms many times in the last few years
Ms. Brown: most of my thoughts haven't changed
Ms. Brown: would you mind if I posted pieces of this conversation on my web site or discussion board?
Ms. Brown: I won't use your name
Ms. Brown: or sn
Ms. Brown: maybe it will help other students too
CuriousSenior: haha. go for it
Ms. Brown: thanks

10/12/02

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